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It’s 2017!!

We’re officially 8 days into 2k17.  In the numerological sense we are in year one.  This year started on 1/1/1.  Which means new beginnings and connecting to mind, body  and spirit. We live in 9 year increments and 2016 was year 9, 2+0+1+6=9,  which meant that a lot of relationships came in an end, a lot of deaths, and many leaving anything that caused more pain than joy.

2017 is going to be an awesome year.  It’s all about beginnings and finding yourself and that’s why I created this blog.  Be You, Be Blessed is truly what I have and I am learning and teaching.  The authentic you, not the mask or role we’ve been taught to play by circumstance or some other force, but the real, unadulterated, undiluted you.

So starts a new year, a new life and the new and improved REAL you and me!!

Until next time,

Be blessed, be loved but most of all BE YOU!!



Have you ever known something, but you didn’t want to know what you knew so you pretended as if you didn’t know.

Well, that’s the situation I find myself in right now.  I went back to school for massage therapy and I graduated in April 2016.  Desperate and in despair, because I had been out of work for a couple of months,  I needed to start in my field asap.   But the catch was that I hadn’t taken my national exam and I hadn’t received my license.  So, when I found an employer who would work with me, with my provisional license, oh so I thought, I jumped at the opportunity.  Not wanting to believe I was jumping into foolishness, I put my gut feelings, instincts and premonitions to the side.  Damn, damn, damn, WTF.  Why would I do that?  Because I blew up my life…again.  You know, I’ve always thought stability was something I wanted, but I think deep down, the unknowingness excites me.  But had I paid attention to my intuition,  I wouldn’t be in the space I find myself.  My instability, is mine and no one elses.  I’m not married and I don’t have any children, however, when my instability starts to disrupt others lives, I have to reevaluate my circumstances and even my selfishness.  Yes, my selfishness.  Being free can manifest your selfishness and your foolishness. Okay, so I’m the nomadic gypsy, I’m the wanderer, the free spirit…great, but when you’ve done things and bought things that require stability and others name are attached as well.  Your freedom you realize aint free.  So, I started a job in May, thinking that I was operating under a provisional license.  My car had started to die, but honestly it would’ve lasted a bit longer than I had given it credit to.  So, I decided that I needed another car, to get to this fabulous job, that’s 45 miles from my home.  So, I bought a new car, not brand new but new to me, a 2014, my old car was a 2001, but it was PAID OFF.  Me, having credit issues at this juncture, because of blowing my life up before, needed a co-signer.  My mom, apprehensively, comes to my rescue.  And co-signs.  Mind you,  I’d only been at my job for 2 weeks…wtf.  Hindsight is 20/20.  So, I applied for my license a few days before I’d started this job and was told by several people that the provisional license was the receipt of your having paid for you full license.  A couple of weeks after I started I took my exam.  Now, I’m thinking that all is on it’s way.  That all is coming together, that all is copacetic.  How wrong I was.   Fast forward a couple of months and I find my pending license is under investigation for unlicensed practice and now I’m unemployed, a MT at this time and have a car note that’s due with mine and someone else’s name on it.    Now, that I look back at all of the rash decisions, I remember keenly every conversation, every gut feeling and even every prayer prayed hoping that what I knew wasn’t the truth.  Alas, what I knew was truth and what I’m dealing with is my unwillingness to acknowledge the truth I already knew.  Have you ever blown your life up?  Have you ever knew something, but didn’t do your due diligence to check the facts?  Think about it and then evaluate what trauma initiated it and what drama it has caused.


Until next time,

Be blessed, be loved but most of all BE YOU!!


It has been a good year so far.  It’s now March of 2016, I’m a month away from completing my massage therapy schooling.  Something I set out to do last year.  Sometimes when things don’t go as planned, it’s the Divine’s way of putting you in the right place at the right time.  I’d decided to go to massage therapy school because it coincides with the other modalities of energy work that I’m interested in practicing.  To know that this dream is coming  to fruition is so exciting and a bit overwhelming.  When you’re in The Divine’s timing, things come together.  I feel as though every one of my class mates were and are connected from another life.  We immediately meshed, there are always  one or two that you’re not going to get along with perfectly but overall it has been such a blessing to commune with them and to complete this era of our lives simultaneously.

I’ve left quite a few things in the past and am happy that I did.  I’ve chosen to embrace my uniqueness and my path.  I am the Nomadic Gypsy.  So, with that being said, embrace, accept and love who you are.


Until next time,

Be blessed, be loved but most of all be you!  💖

Saturn has left the building!

Well, well, well!  Saturn has left the building…sort of, it’ll be back briefly in June.  For those of you that don’t know, Saturn is the great disciplinarian. And when it transits your sign, I’m a Scorpio, you are forced to take a cold, hard look at your life and reevaluate. If you don’t things just get harder and harder. At the end of it’s transits you either feel beat up or empowered.  Well, I feel empowered, I must say. Life has not been easy for the last 2 years for me, however, with this hardship came a sense of peace. Which is kind of weird to have when your life is being completely uprooted. But here are some lessons I’ve learned about myself:

I no longer need anyone’s approval…or their imposed beliefs.

What I’ve stood for was tried and tested…it had to change.

I’m more disciplined and determined.

I’m comfortable with being who I am, and comfortable with letting whomever or whatever clashes with me depart from my life.

The way someone else got what they have, is not the way it may come to me.

That being said,

Be Loved, Be Blessed but most of all BE YOU!

Invitable Changes and Power Struggles

Well, it’s the 1st of November 2014. I’m in a much better place spiritually than I was at the beginning of the year. Of course some bumps in the road, but they were/are simply growing pains.  I’ve come to the realization that I am weird…and it’s okay, because I’ve been learning self love which includes all of my quirks and eccentricities. Being your authentic self is a lot to work through, because we’ve essentially been put in the boxes of family expectations, career/job requirements and everyday lives of conformity.  I’m learning at this junction in my life to be willing to upset some people.  It could be your parents, it may be your boss and it just may be societies conformist.  Power struggles are inevitable because everyone wants to be important.  And it’s okay, but you have a right to decide who and what has importance and significance in your life.  Life is a gift and anything or anyone that drains the energy out of your life has to be eliminated.

The Divine, I no longer call it God, because it’s so commercial, made us in it’s image. And the Divine is energy, therefore we are energy as well, but with the Divine also giving us free will, we decide how we cultivate that energy and make it grow or deplete.  Anything or anyone causing a deficit in your energy supply must go…that includes your old ways, beliefs and phobias.

I’ve been studying Chakra (our energy centers) healing and balancing, meditating and setting intentions.  It seems the Eastern part of the world knew of these divine things far, far longer than us Westerners.  Thank the Divine for the internet.

We’ve been forced to bottle up so much of ourselves in an ill-fated effort to fit in. But once we start clearing all of the debris and rubbish, we will then shine as bright as the Gold that the Divine intended.  I’ve learned that the very things that your parents, most likely, punished you for, or stifled or dismissed is a major part of your purpose.  Think about it…were you just a talkative little kid and was always in trouble for something you said, well, you may have been purposed to be some sort of orator.  Were you always in trouble for not being able to keep still or a busybody, perhaps you’re a world-traveler, were you accused of not obeying authority, perhaps you’re someone who is called to correct authority.  Just think about the thing/s that were a constant struggle for you when you were under your parents supervision and cultivate that.  The Divine will meet you there.

Be Blessed, Be Loved but most of all BE YOU!!

Light and Love!!